Wednesday, 05 September 2012

• My Tour of a Dungeon - NSFW

  Hi guys - I only have a minute to post and this is an odd topic to post about, but I met some fascinating people this weekend. I met 3 couples in a community of BDSM who own and operate a dungeon. They also offer classes about the lifestyle to introduce new people to the lifestyle for information, even if they aren't interested in the lifestyle themselves.

  First I met a lady named "Lisa" who was a full time domme. As we visited and she showed me around the place, her naked slave followed us silently, sitting on the floor when we sat because he isn't allowed on the furniture. I guess he wasn't a slave yet, he is an aspiring slave that is considered a bottom, he hasn't even made sub status yet. She was intelligent, funny, polite and even kind as she explained an overview of what she does and an introduction to the lifestyle. Her slave had spent the day naked and cleaning her toilets, in various torture devices, and rehearsing being subordinate. 

  Next I met a couple who are full time lifestylers, she is his slave and he her master. This relationship took years to develop, and they both seemed very happy with it. When in the house, she is not allowed to wear clothes unless he grants her permission (company or whatnot) and she consented to a non-consensual relationship. She wears a collar and tags all the time, even at work, and she is a scientist. The people I met were educated, professional, normal, funny and kind. It was nothing I expected.

  Lisa was everything you would expect in a domme on the outside. She was 5'10, long dark hair and smoky eyes, dressed in black (though not leather). She had a presence that commanded attention. What I didn't expect was her ability to have a conversation with me from kids, to football, to torturing men.

  Here are some examples of what was in their dungeon.

  This is a suspension device that rotates so the person bound to it can be any angle, upside down, sideways, etc.

  

   

  This is a sawhorse with knee rests. 

  

   

  This is a cock and balls torture chair. You can see where the junk is pulled through, then the guillotine comes down and causes discomfort. 

  

   

  I wish I had more time to explain everything they taught and showed me (not on myself, of course), but I am in the office and don't want anyone to come in :)

  They demonstrated fire play on one of the slaves, they can use fire sticks and bulbs that doesn't actually burn but leaves the skin feeling warm. They explained safe words and some of the attraction to the LS (thank you Fifty Shades of Grey). The most important thing I learned, however, was that people may have exotic lifestyles and interests, do things I would never consider or that might make me shudder, but when you look at anything with an open mind and leave judgement at the door - there are many worlds to discover and fascinating people to meet. 

  I am at work, not sure how much I will be able to respond until later. Have a terrific Hump Day! :)

   

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